I define my world, and my world defines me. I don’t want much from life except that i should own it all. Well, that’s not being too greedy isn’t it? After all i just need my loved ones to surround me, ‘a pay check with enough money to spend and support my loved ones and save some for exigencies’, ‘a job that gives me satisfaction, respect and sense of responsibility and also spares me time for myself and my family’, ‘a world free of political disruptions, international trade and unaffected of foreign exchange and stock market fluctuations’, ‘a place to call home for shelter, where i am at peace with myself and my loved ones’. And it would be appropriate to have few holidays to follow my heart and explore the world outside my world.
Almost all of us are yearning for such world; a world that is lost somewhere in the attempt to live. If hunger and anger were to be blamed for our sporadic snappy seemliness, it would have been justified. But why is it that the people that we care for are hurt the most in our vain attempt to create that world?
Why do we unknowingly and unintentionally put the weight of our insecurities on the shoulders of feeble fragile relationships that need our support instead? There are no straight answers and the desired world seems drifting apart the more we try to reach it.
‘Dying in vain in the illusion of living a better tomorrow’ has blinded us in a manner that we are not able to see what is of true importance to us. We live a life of guilt and regrets while it should have been filled with love and trust. So why is it that our expectations fail us every now and then and we start believing that life is so hard?
Few quick fixes:
My World may not be perfect, but while i am living in it, i won’t make it a hell for those who share it with me.
-ARA
Almost all of us are yearning for such world; a world that is lost somewhere in the attempt to live. If hunger and anger were to be blamed for our sporadic snappy seemliness, it would have been justified. But why is it that the people that we care for are hurt the most in our vain attempt to create that world?
Why do we unknowingly and unintentionally put the weight of our insecurities on the shoulders of feeble fragile relationships that need our support instead? There are no straight answers and the desired world seems drifting apart the more we try to reach it.
‘Dying in vain in the illusion of living a better tomorrow’ has blinded us in a manner that we are not able to see what is of true importance to us. We live a life of guilt and regrets while it should have been filled with love and trust. So why is it that our expectations fail us every now and then and we start believing that life is so hard?
Few quick fixes:
- Sarcasm should be strictly used to deal with stupids.
- No bond breaks with one single impact, try to avoid the numerous small ones that do the real damage.
- Watch your tongue before you litter words.
- Love the loved ones, a little time and ample of love is all they want.
- Make them feel loved and special (more important than the above statement) ;)
- Value what you have and be thankful to Life.
- Forget the follies (the most difficult thing though).
- Understanding is bit abstract, convey what you want.
- If angry, try to keep the frustration to yourself.
- Never bring a ghost of past in a current argument.
- Prioritize relations over assignments (job or otherwise).
- Forgive or forget (the last resort).
My World may not be perfect, but while i am living in it, i won’t make it a hell for those who share it with me.
-ARA
